Time to embrace my desires and unleash my inner Bad Girl
“I’m so fucking tired of being a good girl. I want to be a very bad girl. I wanna make more than Santa’s naughty list this year." My unintentional but heartfelt mic drop was met with applause, hoots, hollers, an offer to introduce me to a “daddy” and verbal encouragement from the 14 other women. Fourteen anonymous women (all of them younger than me) gathered together on a Saturday night in a classy smut bookstore attending an afterhours conversation about desire, facilitated by a sex psychologist. My life isn’t boring. Well, my sex life is. So let’s talk about sex. I mean we can talk about my sex life but it’s currently not that interesting. I guess a good starting place is a super-quick recap of my sex life. Had sex for the first time at 19 when I moved to another city to go to college. The first time wasn’t great but I kept practising and discovered I truly enjoy sex. Respectful, consensual sex. Sex that is gentle, sex that is raw and sex that is exploratory within a...
